By: Martha Morales

The way how a woman dresses reflects part of her “inner part”. That is why, when a man dresses up, he covers his body, when a woman dresses up she uncovers her soul.

I propose you don’t let yourself go with the pressure of the environment. Do you choose to improve fashion and habits? The way you talk, you dress, the way you move has to do very much with the things we have inside. Most of the times fashion turn us into apart of the mass, and that is the way it has been planned by the powerful people in the world. You can be a one piece woman. If women know how to take care of their soul and their body, they will not be just one more woman they will be characterized by their elegance, for being feminine.

We are different from men. Women must know the natural difference in men’s perception of things, which is a different perception form women’s.

She must know very well the difference between being used (woman-object: “you look exciting”) and being loved ( “you look pretty”) Women have ability, art and conditions to use fashion as a means of cleaning society. Do you agree?

Today’s fashion leaves our body intimacy unprotected: it allows to see much of our bodies. A dress that emphasizes sex contributes to hide the real value of an individual and brings him/her out as a pleasure object. The challenge is to go countercurrent, for that reason we have to stress our decency. What does decency mean? Decency is the natural instinct to cover our body and protect it against morbid looks. It helps us to be more decent and in control of ourselves. The lack of decency consists in wearing tight clothes, short skirts, breast showing above neckline, showing our navel; sometimes glances go towards our waist – the navel –and not towards our eyes, and that does not make us happy.

Human body is not a mean to get something, but an aim in itself, that is why it deserves respect. A woman wants to love and to be loved. Each time a woman dresses in a provocative way, she always changes the world (for bad).

A decent woman will always be more in control of herself. Decency is the tendency to hide what does not have to be shown, to keep quiet what must not be said, to keep this gift to his true owner, the loved one. Nakedness is not decent when it belongs to nobody and it belongs to everybody at the same time; available for anyone. Transparent clothing, that let see underwear is not elegant, and may promote lust in men, who do not feel the need to be decent, have no intimacy and live in frivolity. Today, wishes to improve oneself have been replaced for wishes to own things.

You are worth a lot! Much more than you imagine, even though when you have fallen down, even if you have defects, you are worth a lot! Try to be treated as the great woman you are.

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