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By: Maruca Serrano de Ortega (psycotherapist)
Have you ever thought how big love problems are? Is it possible that nowadays love is the reason for jealousy, possession, suffocation, and assassination?
Or is it maybe that we call everything love and we haven’t understood what love really is?
Because, do you know something? Love does not divide, it is not that each of us has a share to love; God did not say you can love up to 40 and you up to 60 and you up to 90, no, God showed that love adds up, never subtracts or divides.
When you have a child you love him with all your heart and when you are expecting another one you wander: where will all that love fit? And you have it and you love your child infinitely, and it adds up, and you have an old friend and he fits in your heart just as a new friend also fits in you heart, past, present and future loves fit because love does not end, does not have limits, there are no obstacles. Now, I should ask is jealousy good? If I truly love, do I have the right to demand, love only me! Can we think that others do not have anything else to love? Of course there are different kinds of love, only God fills up in plenitude and even when we love Him he let us love the others. He is not jealous, He tells us: love me, love yourself, and love the others. Because only in Him we can add up, gather, grow and be better.
Realize this! How many people do you think fit in your heart? Is there any time when you stop to think that you have to divide your love into 10, 20 or 40 people? Never, you never think like that, because you know that loving in not only adding up, it is better then that, loving means learning to let go, whatever it takes, in spite of the pain and the suffering, loving means understanding and forgiving because at the end of the day that is multiplying.
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