By: Diana García
It is normal that during this stage of your life, you feel a little confused. Not only is your body going through a lot of changes, but your mind too.
It is not strange that your emotions and feelings are constantly changing too, all your interior is changing. It is normal that your emotions and your affections are in crisis, because besides your family, your friends are also having a great influence in your way of thinking, however, it might be that deep inside you are experiencing new tendencies and wishes, we could define all this as the search for the own self and you do not know how to reach this internal maturity.
This is a moment where your personality is developing, you are curious about a lot of things, you have many illusions. That is why you must be alert, so that such curiosity does not harm your developing personality.
It is very important that you know and are convinced that you, as any other human person, have intelligence, freedom and will and that due to all those changes you are going through, your intelligence is growing, you are having new experiences, ways of thinking and ways of seeing life that made you feel confused. It is important that you know you are a unique and irrepetible person in the world, that no one in the world is going to be like you, thus, you have a great and unique value. There are many young people who do not realize that they are unique and irrepetible and they try to be different going against the current but they are influenced by others and in this search they end wearing the same clothes, doing and saying the same things and this is because deep inside, they do not realize how valuable they are and they lose their originality.
Regarding your will, it is possible that sometimes you feel you fall into habit disorders crises, habits, which used to be easy to follow and now, all of a sudden you need justifications to willingly do them, that is why, now more than ever you want to look for occupations that make your feel good and that are good for you, although they might be a little difficult, it is necessary to make an effort because that is the only way to develop and strengthen your will. It is very important that you really want to be a better person, that you fight against laziness and slackness, practicing some kind of sport or activity that you like. Strengthening your will helps you realize what you are capable of and not to fall into temptations or vices that hurt you or make you suffer as all addictions do. Only strengthening your will and using your intelligence and freedom you will be able to say NO to any situation that goes against the development of your personality.
In this development process of your personality you will get to know yourself better, you will be self-conscious and due to this intelligence that characterizes you it is important that you are aware of the responsibility and commitment to promote values and virtues in your life that make you a better person every day.
